Back in the dating game but nervous about having sex

I spent years hoping for marriage and babies, and I feel like a bit of an idiot now that I didn't leave sooner.
T’ve been focusing on my job and my friends, whove all been great. They helped me to set up a dating profile and I've connected with someone lovely. At the moment I'm not looking for anything serious, which is probably a good thing as this guy is only 35. We've met up a couple of times and there's definitely chemistry, but nothing has happened so far.
‘We've planned to go away for a couple of nights, which I'm excited about, but I'm very worried about the sex thing.
I've slept with the same person for 15 years and didn't sleep with many people before him. I feel nervous, especially about being naked in front of someone new, who’ also younger and very attractive.
I think I'm in good shape for my age, as I do yoga and run, but I'm not body confident. Id love some words of reassurance and encouragement.
Coleen says
THE one thing I learned when I did the dating app thing for a while is that most people you meet, whatever age they are, tend to overthink this bit.
And it's wrong to assume it's just women who get nervous or feel insecure when it comes to having sex for the first time with someone new.
Many men feel these things, too and they've ...